I have a friend who is SO TENSE. I cannot be in her presence without wanting to punch something, anything… not because I’m mad at all, just because it rubs off onto me. Being friends with her has really made me pity her, and promise myself not to be like that. I try and take things easy, and just not stress the little stuff. Most things that happen really aren’t the end of the world, and I recognize that. It’s just such a better way of living life, it really is. =) Why be tense all the time? There’s just no need.