keep in contact with my friends
Confused 22 months ago

When I call friends multiple times, and leave messages, but get no response, my abandonment issues really get stirred up. Well I get this via text message and email today from a friend:

Sorry I’m such a bad friend and don’t call you. I just want you to know that I think about you all the time and love you lots!

I’m not sure what to make of that…why wouldn’t she just call me?



Comments:

now I sleep in insistantly inconsistant

Its all about timing

Life gets crazy. Sometimes I have too much going on to have enough time to really have a good phone conversation. Or sometime I am just not in the right mental space to talk. Doesn’t matter if its my mom or best friend. Sometimes those calls are harder to take because the time and energy I invest in the relationship is so important to me.

Everyone’s different, but I would enjoy her text and its honest sincerity.

Emma Jones is Christmas shopping! Egads!

Who needs toxic friends. Sometimes it’s lonelier to be expecting things from people who can’t give to you what you need, then it is to let these people go. I found this out the hard way. Now a days, if someone is toxic, negative, making me feel negative… it’s goodbye.

Try to find out who is genuine and who is just doing enough to be “nice” and all that crap. Real ties will stay, but you don’t need the bullshit in your life anymore and it’s empowering to let it go.

All the best to you.
XOX


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