find my dad
Help me please. 4 years ago

Hello,
My name is Shala, I’m 16 years old and I am in search of my father. I didnt know until I was 7 years old that my brother wasn’t really my full blooded brother, but instead my half-brother. My mother told me one day when I asked her why I didn’t have a Daddy and Why all these men keep coming and going, that my father didn’t know I was alive. TO this day he still doesn’t know I exist. The time has taken its toll on me that after 9 years of trying to find a way to contact my father, or supposed father, has come up as a failure. The only information I have on my father is that his name is Dave Ford and his last place of residence, that my mom knows of, is in Weirton West Virginia. IF anyone can help me contact my father it would be very appreciated. I ask for help because after 16 years I have grown tired of wondering where the rest of me is, and feeling as if I never will know. Just once do I want to be able to look at my father and let him know what he gave birth to. TO allow him to know the accomplishments I’ve toiled over and the pain he’s cause me and my mom. The only down side is, is in order to proove he is my dad I need him to do a paternity test, because I am a one night stand child so there is a possibility that he isn’t my birth dad….

Please someone help me out!



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Lady J Guess who's back...

I would like to help

I took a private investigation class and I can give you some ideas to help.

Birthdate and social security number are two things that can help you greatly.

  • Ask you mom more about your dad. Questiosn like the year you were born and where he lived around that time. What is his full name? How old is he and his birthdate. Does she remember his last address or the names of some of his family members? Does she remember where he use to work? Where did he go to school?
  • Call directory assistance and see if he still has a phone number in the last city he was in. Or call the phone company for that area and see if he is listed. If you get the phone number you can do an online reverse phone number search and possibly get an address.
  • You can go to the local Board of Elections to access public records of voters registration for that area. This information that is available to the public. A person’s voters registration will give you a great deal of information. Depending on the state it will contain a persons name, birth date and address at the time of the registration.

You can run a criminal background check on a individual by going to the Office of the Court Administration-Criminal Records Division of you city. For $16.00 you can run a personal criminal background check per borough. This report will give you the criminal offenses and history of addresses.

*Generally, most courthouse records is public record and can be reviewed by just about anyone. Second, a complete courthouse records check can turn up mounds of details concerning most people who live in the county. Think of the different departments within the courthouse:
1) AUTO TAG REGISTRATION
2) BUSINESS LICENSE
3) REAL ESTATE PROPERTY RECORDS
4) TRAFFIC RECORDS
5) TAX RECORDS
6) CIRCUIT CIVIL RECORDS
7) SMALL CLAIM CIVIL RECORDS
8) CIRCUIT CRIMINAL RECORDS
9) COUNTY CRIMINAL RECORDS
10) VOTER REGISTRATION
11) GENERAL INDEX RECORDS
12) FISHING AND HUNTING LICENSE
13) MOBIL HOME REGISTRATION
14) MARRIAGE RECORDS
15) BUILDING PERMITS
16) COUNTY POLICE RECORDS
17) PROBATE RECORDS

I will post more as I go through my notes but I hope this helps!

Lady J

Lady J Guess who's back...

The Public Library can help you too!

Here is the website for the public library for Weirton West Virginia.

They have a lot of government information and can give you some ideas of how to help locate them.

http://weirton.lib.wv.us/

hi i'm meghan

hi my name’s meghan and i’m kinda like u i’m 16 also & i just finished finding out that i have two half-blooded sisters instead of full-blooded. but unlike u i unfortunately don’t know nething about my father i try soo hard 2 find out nething about him but nobody wants 2 tell me. so ur lucky compared to me!!


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