I met this bloke a year ago on NYE thought he was ok haha after that it took 6 months to see him again, we start “seeing” each other before he went all weird on me i thought he was seeing someone else. (he wasnt) he said we should just be friends after that. i was ok with this, then i fell for him. we ended up sleeping together a number of times and i aske him what he wanted he said he wanted me. then didnt call or text or reply to any of my messages for 3 weeks. next time i saw him he was all friendly with me and got me a really lovely xmas present. saw him in the pub bout 6 weeks after that with some girl turns out he’s with her so i told him i love him and he sed he feels the same but hes scared to be with me because he doesnt wanna lose me or hurt me. he said she is’nt special like me and we spent the night hugging. he asked why i was only tellin him now and i said cos its so hard to tell someone how you feel i was scared he wouldnt say it back and he said of course i would if said it back i feel the same. if he feels the same then why is he with someone else? when we are together its so perfect all the time and i cant imagine my life with out him. not seeing him till tuesday or wednesday going out of my mind not knowing how he is going to act around me. hoping we can get a 2nd chance!! Ive not slept all week or eaten cry all the time, everyones telling me to forget him but i cant. its so hard loving someone so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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spoke to him the other day, i sed we are never going to be together are we and he goes i want u but i cant have u cos im seeing someone else and i sed then u cant want me that much. he goes thats just ur opinion i DO want u but im with someone else so i sed well if u ment it then u wouldnt b with someone else would u? and he goes she dnt deserve to be treated badly its not her fault and i sed ur not treating her badly ur being kind if u tell her the TRUTH!! dont string her along if u dnt want her.! then he gave me a hug and im ment to be seeing him this week but so far he aint replied to my texts starting to wonder if he even wants to be friends! this is so painful!!!!!!
Amarula is chilling :-)
Not Worth It
I don’t think this dude is worth your time. I was with someone like him, only differencr is that the “other girl” was his ex. They were part for 2 years before we met and we knew each other from childhood however when I moved house, I lost contact with him. We bumped into each other at a friend’s 21st and started chatting, he was all cool and we started liking each other then he asked me out. I thought abt it nd said yes to him and things went well. But then he started cting all weird and was basiclly only after one thing from me.. affection and physicality… For me, there is more than that to a relationship.
Things started getting hectic with us and then the one day I forced him to talk. It turned out that he was still in love with his ex who by freak co-inicidence has the same name as me. And I know the chick as well. anyway, everytime i was with him or not, she was all he thought about. When I found out abt this, I left him and told him to go to her, and that it was being unfair on me, and her and that she deserved to know this. I think your dude is being unfair coz he wants you and the other chick but for different reasons. He shouldnt string you along, he just needs to think clearly with his mind. But don’t wait for him coz you may be waiting for someone thats just going to let you down.
It’s going to be real difficult, but you can’t be used and abused just when it suits him. I really like the guy I was with but he never returned this coz it was directed to the other girl. At some time, a choice by him has got to be made.
Hope it works out for you guys coz from what you wrote above, he really likes you and all he has for the other girl is infactution. . .
Take Care
“Amarula”
