What other people think of you doesn’t matter in the large scheme of things. I have never really cared what other people thought, and still don’t. Yes I care about how my boss peceives me, but as long as I’m employed I don’t worry about it. Yes, I care about what my husband thinks, but not enough to change who and what I am. Sometimes it’s not easy, but it is always satisfying to know that I am happy with who I am.