We all deal with this in our own way. Some more than others of course. But I has to do with your character trait that wants to ‘please’. This is instilled in us by our parents, teachers extra…Sometimes consciously , other times unconsciously.

It is not easy to change this behaviour. I know from experience. But if you work on it, improvement will follow ;-)

Try a simple exercise: Start your day off with an affirmation. For example…tell yourself: I am confident in myself and the decisions I make. etc etc

And also be happy with your accomplishments. When you do so you will notice that this will radiate and others will see this as well. Confidence is the key!

Good luck