February was just tough on every level. Instead of growing and finding balance, I’ve been busy dealing with curveballs. Still, I did get a few things done and also have learned a lot from this past month, so in the end, it was still progress, such as:
- Realizing that I should not feel responsible or hurt by drama/gossip, which is spread by miserable people anyway. It is not worthy of my energy or attention.
- How to handle my mother more efficiently and establish boundaries.
- Never drive a car out of warranty! I was grateful for my warranty when my car fell apart.
- Yes, I can handle every situation that life throws at me (see previous post!). I just have to learn to be a bit more graceful. :)
- Setbacks are just temporary. However, dwelling on them makes them look out of proportion. No more dwelling! Let’s move on to March.
March Goals
G1: Well-being
When I am stressed or down, the first thing that goes out the window is my diet and exercise plan. I have to break the cycle:
- On payday this week I will fill my fridge with nutritious, delicious food that follows my healthy eating plan.
- Keep taking my fish oil.
- Have a fruit and a salad everyday.
G2: Body
- Start the PBD exercise plan.
- Create and keep a fitness log.
- Keep taking care of my skin and reevaluate my RAM treatment.
- Keep taking care of my hair.
G3: Therapeutical
- Work on core beliefs with therapist.
- Make a conscious effort to stop yelling.
- I will not go out of my way to check news stories that make me upset or sad! Stop with the masochism.
G4: Career
Hm. I seem to be stuck. The economy is really down right now and a promotion is coming my way, so I will just deal with it for now. The next two months are probably going to be tough at work:
- No complaining, just keep on being positive and deal with projects efficiently.
- Leave on time everyday.
- Send my new resume to that one recruiter and return some calls. It’s a small step but still.
G5: Finances
I have great self discipline in this area thankfully! I’ve raised my credit score by 20 points this month, got a great credit card (for major emergencies only) and did not deplete my savings with the unexpected expenses we’ve had. My one minor card should be paid off this month!
- For the time being I’ll just keep on padding my savings and paying down my debt, so no specific goals this month.
G6: Planning/Organization/Home
- Backup all of my music library
- Have some checklists on hand (cleaning checklist, bills, healthy foods/grocery list, and job search checklist)
- Clean up my email accounts
- Get renter’s insurance
- Get a water fountain for the kitties
G7: Relationships
- Answer all the wonderful people who sent me mail through 43things :)
No other goals. Just try to have more fun.
G8: Fun and Play
No idea on this one. I think I have forgotten to have fun for the time being :( Suggestions are welcome! I think I should start a 43things group in my city and meet some people! If you need a friend in Arizona, I am taking applications. :P
G9: Learning and Personal Growth
- Go through my bass learning DVD
G10: Other Projects
None at the time
