Well….I got into it again with my mom tonight. I basically laid it all on the line and told her how horribly she makes me feel. I got it ALL out. I feel really good about it. We had this conversation online which made it easier for some reason. I don’t know if I could have told her everything in person. She got defensive again and told me I was being selfish but I think she will think about what I said. She was already being nicer by the end of our conversation.