yes tons of people and i dont see why. like you said why go out of your way?? I wish I knew but I would say the best way to fix the problem would be to get the hell out of the relationship and not let this happen in thefuture ones

Why don’t you tell him your not feeling appreciated and tell him you think he’s crap at giving you pleasure and making you happy, just make him feel really shit about himself for a minute, then he might try harder in the future

You have to make him want u… I know i am asking for help but i did fix this problem with the help of a friend of mine… Do anything dress up buy a new nighty i went over to a girlfriends house put on movie star makeup and majorly fixed my hair and took some not porno but racier pictures she took them so he couldnt get mad…it worked like a charm. He loves them and now i am the only thing turned on when i am anywhere in that mood.hope that helps!