I am kind of under the impression that it was a suggestion from someone else (to cut things off with me) This is what has been confusing to me. We did share many thoughts and ideas and events in each of our lives. We really connected on so many levels. Maybe it was all about timing…him getting over a break up and me ending my marriage. I really do think that he feels bad about hurting me and I do want to forgive. I fluctuate between anger and hurt. I really mourn the loss of the friendship…I really want that back but I am not sure how. When I asked him if he wanted my new address he said it was up to me. Is that simply a straighforward statement or does it mean he Doesn’t want it but if I insist…I can give it to him anyway. Thanks for the comment, I appreciate your thoughts on this.