that was my head hitting the wall. :-)
I think we’ve all seen this:

“Depending upon who sends messages to whom it will either cost you smackers, earn you smackers, or cost you nothing. You can earn smackers by replying to people who are writing to you for the first time, or by writing to people who want to meet you. The idea is to keep people from being jerks by discouraging spamming and unwanted communication, and encouraging the right kind of communication.”

So in order to get smackers I need to reply to people who are writing to me for the first time. So… dare I ask, how do those people get smackers so that they can write to me for the first time? Feel free to write to me for the first time so I can get some smackers, that is if you have any.