but it seems like the people in my family keep making the same mistakes over and over from one generation to the next. That stops here, I won’t be like them. I will stand on my own two feet and make something of myself. I won’t put on a mask of happiness, I won’t refuse to deal with things when they don’t go my way, and I won’t put on a show.I believe in learning and it’s time for the daughter to learn from the mistakes of her family’s past and make a different choice and live.