worldexplode

stop being a pushover (read all 2 entries…)
trying 7 months ago

last night i stood up to a guy who has been trying to get a few things out of me. i told him, “i don’t think i want to. sorry.” and he got mad and started saying some rude things. i got upset and ended up saying, “maybe another time.”
i think the reason i’m a pushover is because i can’t stand letting people down or making them upset, i just like to make other people happy, which usually ends up harming me in the end.
dljasldflsadj i’m so frustrated with myself.

Apr 21, 11:59AM PDT | 2 cheers


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13etty

just remember...

that you deserve to be happy too…wish you the best!! ciao

Apr 21, 12:05PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

worldexplode

Honestly, thank you so much for saying that. You’re completely right, and I never realized it until now.

Apr 21, 12:22PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 1 cheer

13etty

no problem...

actually…those were the exact words of my best friend…lol…i was in the same boat and i couldn’t help it…i’m a people pleaser by nature…i love seeing and knowing that i can make people happy…but she made me realize that when all our focus is on others we tend to forget about ourselves and forget that we count as well…glad i was of help =)

Apr 22, 12:44PM PDT | Respond to this

MaryMaryMary

people WILL like you...

even if you don’t let them take advantage of you. Figure out if you are trying to compensate for something, and address THAT thing. (Lose weight if you think you’re fat, etc.) Much easier said than done… but start small and don’t compare yourself to anyone other than you. 13etty is right! YOU deserve to be happy.
If doing for others makes you happy, then keep on! Just remember to look out for yourself FIRST, like you would your dearest friend. Good luck, sweetness.

Apr 22, 01:15PM PDT | Respond to this

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Apr 22, 01:19PM PDT


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