Sundays Child ~ Faith, Hope & Love ♥ is a Spiritual Extroverted Tree Hugger, enjoying the sunshine!

learn to say no without feeling guilty
No, thank you. 19 months ago

I am learning that people don’t like hearing the word no. One friend even commented, days later, that I was acting weird on the particular day that I said no to her, bordering on being rude, she said. I wasn’t rude when I said no, I clearly remember doing it, but she is so used to me always saying yes and getting her own way, that it threw her for a loop.

Ah well .. here’s to NO!!



Comments:

facing the storm

At first I have found that people do not like being said no to
These may be people who are highly manipulative, and they dont want you changing the rules of the game.

I read this somewhere that

“THOSE WHO CAN MAKE US FEEL GUILTY OWN US.THATS BECAUSE GUIT IS ENERGY THAT HAS THE POTENTIAL TO CONTROL OTHERS,AND WHO ARE THE PEOPLE THAT ARE EASILY CONTROLLED BY THEM?

Sundays Child ~ Faith, Hope & Love ♥ is a Spiritual Extroverted Tree Hugger, enjoying the sunshine!

And so it goes on.

This sure is a learning experience. LOL Learning about myself, that the world won’t come to a halt if I say no, I am not that powerful!

Brushing aside guilt is difficult, but not impossible and the more I do it, the easier it gets.

Thanks for your comment. :-)


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