I have raised 3 voys by myself no help from dad. Over it. I now have a 4 year old grandaughter and I love her to death. I see the fire in her eyes, I see the innocence, I see her imagination. She is 4. I am dreading the day that she gets shot down as she will. She will loose herself. She will loose her dreams, she willl loose her trust, she will loose everything about her. It breaks my heart because I love her somuch and all I can do is hope and pray she will still believe in herself and her dreams and who she is.