I used to try to control everything (which is also why I didn’t forget anything). That is to say, I often “forced” things. Decisions to make, things I absolutely had to do, stuff like that.

Now when I feel I can’t control something (because there are too many factors to take into account, because there are too many things I don’t and can’t know) I just let go and let the Universe decide. In particular, when there’s a decision to make that I’m just not ready to make, or that I can’t make because a choice is too hard, I just wait for the decision to be ready to be taken. And untill now it has always been working very, very well. The good decision has always been made, in its time.