live my life on my own terms, not trying to live up to the expectations of others (read all 3 entries…)
Me me me!!! 2 years ago

Most of my goals have a certain theme in mind. My main problem is that I am a push-over. I always spread myself too thin trying to make everyone else happy. Usually I am worried that people don’t like me or I will make them angry if I don’t do something for them. Over the years I am slowly getting better of dealing with people but it is no easy task for me. For some reason it is easier for me to go unhappy so that someone else can be. I know that sounds stupid and it is because that leads to people using me and not appreciating me. So I will keep my own standards and do what is right for me and do what makes me happy.

I want to stop living through and for other people and start living for me.



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Make a Life of Your Own

Stop living through other people. Join in and have fun when it suits you. Invite others to join you sometimes but enjoy yourself either way.

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I know how you feel . . .

I know exactly how you feel! I do the exact same thing. I wish I were different. I usually end up hurting the people I really care about because I am too busy trying to make ‘everyone’ happy instead of just the people that matter the most to me or the people that I know would do the same for me in return. I don’t know why I am like this . . . .


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