Try and go to lessons even if it’s just for an hour a week. I’ve been having lessons for an hour a week for less than a year, I don’t have a drum kit at home because I live in an apartment and I’m preparing for my Grade 3 exam already.
You can do it! :D Start lessons without a drumkit, your teacher will understand. And when you’re ready you can buy a decent electric drum kit and use the headphones so you don’t bother your neighbours!