I was in a long distance relationship with my ex for a little over a year, we broke up a little over a year ago too while in other relationships for about 6 months after that I was okay. Now I think I’m falling for him again. We talked off and on, and now we talk again on a regular basis. The past two months we’ve let each other know that the feeligs are stil there, pretty much daily. I don’t want another long distance relationship, I wasn’t so much into the whole not seeing each other thing, but I was hoping we could soon start a REAL relationship. Yesterday he told me he had a girlfriend. I was crushed. Extremely crushed. Was he leading me on? Do I have a right to be mad? Should I still hope for the future realationship? How can I get over him?!
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Wow ahaha.
I was reading this, and I was like, ‘wait.. did I have an old account and put this one here?’. A very similar thing happened to me. We were in a long distance relationship on and off for about 2 years.
Up until recently, things were going great, we weren’t together because we didn’t want to do the long distance thing, although we behaved like boyfriend and girlfriend. Then out of the blue he gets a girlfriend! He didn’t even tell me, I found out and he just said ‘sorry but you knew it was coming’. :l
I was in the fetal position in a corner for weeks. It was terrible. But then I met a very nice boy.. Although I am not completely over my love for the long distance boy, it’s getting easier and I think about him less each day.
So, after all this rambling, my advice would be: cut off communication, give it time, cry when you need to, meet new people, be open to other guys even though you don’t know if you’ll ever love again. You will.
what a co-ink-e-dink.
that’s wild!
someone in my very own shoes
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Cutting off communication should be rather easy with the 9 hour time difference it’s hard to talk anyway, I’m not sure why I didn’t think of this.
I really enjoy meeting new people,
being open to other guys, that’s an entire different story.
I’ve met a few potentials, I’m not sure if it’s because I was still in like with that fool and I didn’t give them any chance.
this weekend is a girl’s weekend out.
hopefully things will go greattt with thee fellas.
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