The secret to this if you want to call it a secret….is to just be you. People who try to put on a happy Christian mask make themselves unapproachable to those who are curious about our faith. Instead, be real, be down to earth, be transparent and willing to show your struggles just as quickly as you’r willing to show your successes and more important than anything….NEVER EVER EVER be judgemental. When we’re a spiritual snob and point fingers at what other people are doing or aren’t doing it NEVER makes them want to listen to anything you have to say, instead it completely turns them off. Show genuine grace, mercy and unconditional love and that is the best witnessing tool that you could ever employ. Words are nice but the true witness of our faith is what we DO.
Nobody likes a hypocrite, but a Christian hypocrite trying to set an example for others is especially obnoxious.