I discovered a letter which suggested my wife was having an affair with a woman friend. She denied this and we supposedly tried to work things out. I then discovered that she was still seeing her, and had been for five years. during this time, this woman had come to our house for christmas dinner, my wife had asked me to do several jobs in her house and that they were planning to “marry” and buy me out the house. We are now separated, awaiting divorce. I was devastated, as you can imagine. A long time later, I met the most beautiful woman, but it only lasted a few weeks. This has added to my feeling of uselesness, that my life is over. I am so incredibly lonely and do realise that only I can change it