fall head-over-heels in love with someone who is head-over-heels in love with me
will it ever happen? 19 months ago

it doesnt hurt to dream… at least for me i dont know how much more to dream. i always try having a hope in my heart that “the one” is already somewhere hiding in this planet, but at the same time when in this world is he gonna show up i dont want to be the girl who ends up with some dude just because she thought he was the one or no one else, im not picky but i know what i want and ive heard from ppl ur never gonna find exactly what ur looking for so might as well settle down and be ok with what or who comes u way. but WHY!!!!! why should i have to be content with someone or somethingi know is not in my plans, as much as i want to fall in love and have a movie like feeling for someone i dont want to just be with someone anyone. and i am not picky but i do of course have my preferences which are very very simple so i dont know why it is so god damn difficult for me to find my one! all i want is a person with true feelings, with a huge heart, a person who loves animals and nature, a person who can express their feelings on a pieace of paper, a person who makes me something for a special occasion such as a song a poem a picture rather than to buy m something some other man created,a person who is free of labels, a person who seeks freedon im all of its aspects,a person who loves adventure and doing new things without been afraid of falling, a person who would love me for who i am and how i am, now for the superficial aspect i want or prefer a guy light eyes i dont know why i have a thing for lighter color eyes such as green, blue baby blue anythiung that reminds me of the sky or nature lol thats just the superficial part of me tho all of the above are waaay much more important of course. but this man i have in mind never shows around me and if he does he’s not mine he’s either someoneelses, doesnt even notice me or is gay…. :( realy really all i want is just to fall in love.



Comments:

Don’t settle… ever =)

I’d make it a goal to just meet high-quality people in general… develop strong relationships with wonderful people, and you’ll eventually meet a guy who is high-quality, too. Focus on people who keep their word, pursue their goals, don’t procrastinate, are confident, friendly, analytical, etc.

Also try to separate all the feelings that have to do with romance, from the feelings that have to do with wanting a long-term trustworthy companion that you can invest in emotionally. These two things are easy to confuse. Also… the traits in a person that make the person romantically attractive are usually not the same traits that make the person a good candidate for long-term friendship. That’s one reason why guy-girl relationships are confusing.

Ok, ok… One more secret that many girls screw up on =) If you like a guy, but he doesn’t seem interested in you, move on. Reason: attraction isn’t something you can choose or cause. So putting on a sexy dress isn’t going to make a guy like you… it might make him want to sleep with you, but it won’t make him see you in the way that he needs to see you in order to have a real relationship that’s not based on romance. Think of a relationship that has a great foundation based on two high-quality people, with romance layered on top. Lots of failed relationships are caused by a foundation of romance and attempting to build a friendship/companionship/trust on top of that…

you are sooo right!

haha about a month ago i met this amazing guy,that seemed to fit so well with what i wanted and what i was looking for and it all looked so great for us, we shared same beleifs, have goals, we are both VEGAN! lol and we had such an amazing time together talking for hours adn hanging out with each other entire weekends… one night tho he decided to i guess make the next move, he moved in closer to kiss me, of course i wanted to kiss back b/c i thought i really liked this guy, as soon as our lips met all the sparks dissapeared, im not sure if it happened to him too, but at least for me there was nothing, no passion no desire to keep on kissing him, no sparks of any kind no chemistry. thats when i found out exactly what u mentioned above i was attarcted to him b/c he was so sweet and romantic and caring but really more as a friend to me that i think about it, but not in a relatrionship type of way. he is amazing maybe everything i want in a guy, but i guess he is not my guy ( very confusing) yes guy-girl relationships are confusing.


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