that I am an understanding man… I except things for face value and do everything I can to understand the hows and whys… I can shut down my feelings about something until I know what the reality of the situation is… I never really thought about this before but I have done this for many years… If after I understand the situations I see there is a reason to be upset then and only then I allow the emotion… The only time when I cannot control my feelings is when I feel attacked or backed into a corner… Kind of like an animal I fight and lash back without thinking… That is something I want to learn to change… I want to be is a strong stable understanding man in every situation… The people I love deserve nothing less…