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My father continues to assume my son is autistic... 18 months ago

My father, who sees him once or twice a year. What really bothers me is that every time he brings it up, it makes me worry. What if I’m missing something? What if…?

What is it about me that makes me not trust myself? To say nothing of his doctors, who haven’t mentioned autism at all?

I’m still going to look into this more but I must say, my family is going to drive me crazy.



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Resources

If you think your son may have any kind of developmental delay, whether it is autism or anything else, there are lots of resources that can help. Pediatricians, while improving in this area, are not always the easiest to talk to about this subject. You might want to check out the “Early Intervention” program in your area. I am not sure how old your son is but I can think of a couple of resources that might be able to give you some support and information in your area:

If your son is under 3 years old )or even if he is older, as they can probably give you some good leads), try this (don’t be put off by some of the words no the top of the linked page, keep reading…)

If older, you might want to contact this one for some possible local resources.

As always, I hope this helps. Hang in there.

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Thanks

He did work with the early intervention program in the area that we just left (recommended by his pediatrician). I’m going to call the school system on Monday in our new area, since he turns 3 today and I think that the early programs seem to stop at 3.

Thank you for the links – I’m going to go take a look at those now!

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It may take a while for that diagnosis

It took the Mister and I seven years to get someone to take a look at our spawnling and test him. We were told everything from “He’s just being stubborn” to “Kids get that way” to “He’s a bad influence and I want him out of my class!”

Turns out he’s got Aspberger’s…a high functioning level of autism that leaves him just able enough not to need special ed courses, but not enough to act “age-appropriate.”

If you’ve already getting your boy into early intervention, IMHO you’re doing all that you can do at his age without drugging him.

Good luck, hon.

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Thanks!

I appreciate it! He’s doing much better these days. Sigh. That makes me feel both better and worse – my husband and I haven’t pushed as hard on things as we should have. We’ve gotten caught up in our own problems, I’m afraid. Not enough, mind you, to NEGLECT our children – but enough. God life is hard.

At any rate, we’re all doing better now I think – for the most part. And my son will be starting “school” – I guess something along the lines of a pre-school type program for children that are “delayed” – in the fall. I’m pleased with his progress now and I think that that will be GREAT for him. I’m starting to feel better about some things, at any rate!


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