redashton is taking life one step at a time.
I don’t know why I waited so long to do it. It wasn’t a big deal after all. It all started with this rough patch I had with my gf and because we’re in a LDR, things were rough and my college datelines weren’t helping at all. My mom happened to be visiting me and she caught me crying in my room. When I finally told her, she confessed that she knew about it some time ago but had given me a benefit of a doubt. But she was alright and even said that my life was my own and she was going to be supportive as long as I was happy. She was even tried to cheer me up by going shopping with me. I’m not really the shopping type but I just thought it was sweet of her. Plus, later I asked my Dad if my Mom had told him anything; to which he replied that he knew before my Mom did. I couldn’t help but laughed and it made me wonder what the hell have I been so worried about in the first place? Anyway, for everybody reading this, thanks for your cheers and support. For everyone whose planning to come out, I think it’s all about timing. It’s good to come out to your parents but I doubt all parents are as accepting as mine(to which I’m grateful for), but for what it’s worth; it’ll save you a lot of heartache and suffering. Do it when you’re ready and when you think your parents are ready to listen to you as an adult and respect your decision. Arguing about it isn’t going to help except strain relationships. Everyone’s expectation of their kids or parents is different, so be patient at all costs. Rome was never built in a day.