I have left the security of a stable relationship that I had become comfortable with. It had become clear that the only need that was being met was a financial one. I suppose that worked for a while but I want more. So after 8 years with him I am starting over. I want to make it on my own. Yes there will be struggles but what adventure doesnt have its fair share of difficulties? So this adventure is me going off into the unknown uncertain future in hopes of a better life. I do not know where this will lead me but I am forging ahead and moving on.