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Communicate with my friends better (read all 7 entries…)
One is Silver, the Other Gold

I’m finally starting to let go of some of my old friends. I’ve realized how detrimental my relationship with them is. I’ve spent so much time with them and as the only female in the group, I’ve been the planner for the past three years. Part of me says to not “give up” but then the other part says that it’s not giving up. I’ve spent three years of my life trying to plan events for them, calling them, visiting them, and not a single one of them has done the same in return…

Now that I’ve found great college friends and the group from church is getting closer again, I don’t feel the need to them so much any more. Part of me feels bad and tells me that I should call them, but NO. I’m done. I have many other friends in the area who are making an effort to hang out with me so why not form more positive relationships which work both ways (which is what friendship is supposed to be!)? I’m aiming higher now.



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