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live without regrets
The Beginning of the End... 17 months ago

The end of regretting, that is. Haha. I do exactly the opposite of this goal. I live each day in the past, fixating on mistakes I’ve made, missed opportunities, fears that held me back from achieving my dreams (no matter how big or small they were)... I am constantly regretting. Even when I achieve something great, I minimize it’s importance. Forget about it’s importance to anyone else, but rather it’s importance to me and my life journey. I don’t see the positive in my personal achievements. I need to stop living in the past. I need to stop regretting missed opportunities because when I’m focusing on the past, I’m missing out on today’s opportunities! And that just fuels this cycle of regret, which is absolutely RIDICULOUS. I have to reprogram my mind, learn how to live for today, seizing the opportunities that today brings, forgetting about yesterday’s mistakes. Now is the time to change my outlook, because I absolutely cannot continue to live this way! This is not living.



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You helped me so much! thank you for posting this

milanO is living her life to the fullest!

Goal Achieved!

Hey talent1208!

I am so glad that you were blessed by my post! I totally forgot that I had posted here on 43 Things about that goal. Here it is September, two months later and my goal has been achieved! I no longer live in the past. Instead, my sights are focused on who I am today and who I will be tomorrow. I embrace every good thing in life and strive to make better what I don’t like about my life, rather than just sulk about it. Life is beautiful. Every moment truly is a gift! We must make the most of it <—and not be pressured by such a statement! But see it as an opportunity for great happiness right here and now!

Read “The Alchemist.” That totally inspired me not to be afraid to dream and to have the courage to pursue my dreams. Also, read “Your Best Life Now: 7 Steps to Living at Your Full Potential.” That book really helped me to reprogram my mind and realize that I am wonderfully made! I am fully equipped for success and just need to trust that I am fully able to attain my own happiness.

I hope you are blessed! And I pray great happiness to you in your life. God bless you, dear!


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