Emotional attachement is tricky… I think you need to have something profound in common with somebody.Or else you get tired of each other. Sounds plain but… Things like being in the same life situation and looking for the same thing, having the same kind of humour… And theres a lot of love into it as well. Having a best friend borders on being in a relationship. Me and my best friedn are practically married. But thats because I havent found mr. right yet i guess… Its easier when youre kids. Not afraid of getting hurt just as youre not afraid of getting your knees bruised… like, kids just jump and climb and run around… just like their emotional life is much easier. Playing is what they have in common, what they do to bond. What do adults do to get that feeling of unity. Watch movies? Sit at coffee shops and talk?
No wonder we dont get close.
I guess you cant really put in an ad to get a guy friend. Guy friends are supposed to wrestle each other and hit on girls together, and love each other like brothers… Like brothers who have grown up with each other. Not be so desperate for a friend that they have to advertise on the internet… I mean, its doomed. You cant get an internet matchmaker to get you a guyfriend. Like, its just a bit.. gay.
So I dont know. Go play with the others. Join a band. Go work in an environment withlots of testosterone filled guys. Then you can hang with them, I dont know…