help people understand that atheism is a valid choice (read all 4 entries…)
I'm a good person ... really

I think many people would find it difficult to believe that I am an athiest. I am pricipled and give a lot to the community. Why is it so hard to believe?
I think that being an atheist is harder than being religious. I don’t have any book or supreme being to fall back on when decisions are hard. I have to decide for myself.
Question: What is the difference between mythology and religion?
Answer: Time.



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I LOVE YOU

I too am not from any religion. I am still totally puzzled how anyone can believe such things. Its all fables and as time goes on we continue to prove humans has been here only a couple million years and only a couple thousand years as a thinking feeling human. It must be all about brainwashing and fear of dieing that pushes people to believing such nonsense. The sad thing… Most suffering and persicution and murder are directly related to the various organized religions. True from tbe begining of man.

You missed my point

My point is not to tell anyone that their choice is stupid. I don’t personally have faith. Faith is required to believe in the things that you can’t see.

I do however see much value in religion. There is value in aspiring to be better, reflecion on one’s self, a sense of community and knowing that everyone follows the same basic set of rules.

I completely disagree with your statement about violence completely. I think that it is an ignorant understanding of statistics and the underlying issues behind most conflict. I do agree that there are people who will use religion as an excuse for violence but they are thankfully few and far between on a planet with 6 1/2 billion people.

I don’t hear most religious leaders screaming to kill others and I have read both the Bible and the Koran (albeit not recently but my understanding is that they don’t change much). Of course, one could pull out individual lines out of context and make them both out to espouse violence when then do not. They are generally rules for a society to live by told through stories.

I do not fault anyone for studying and reflecting on these topics. It is just not for me.

MY point was simply that I wish that atheism did not come off sounding like a bad word in our society. I do not have faith that we were poofed into existence by a supreme being and although the concept of heaven is comforting, I don’t find that enough of a reason to believe it. That said, I am facinated by the study of humanity and by introspection. I enjoy good debate and open minds.

I am just tired of getting strange looks when I say that I am an athiest to people I am speaking to.

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It is ignorant

It is ignorant to think that someone who doesn’t believe in a Supreme being isn’t capable of believing in all of those things (the value of family, the sanctity of life, or the importance of fidelity in marriage.) and more. I even think that religious texts are important books.

My goal is simply to educate people that morals and religion are dinstinct things. I know many ‘religious’ people who I wouldn’t trust for a second.

In the past year, I have been much more open about my atheism. It has taken some doing to get comfortable enough wtih myself that I can say it openly. I am doing so now more for my son. I want to be sure that the people around us do not question our choice once he is aware enough to understand the conversation. (Not that he won’t be exposed to the conversation but I don’t want it to come up so many times that he gets concerned)

I plan on introducing him to many religions. I think that it is an important part about living in our society. I am personally facinated by people’s belief systems and it is unlikely that some of that open questioning will not rub off on him.

He will also know that atheism is a difficult choice. For example, I do not say “under god” when I say our country’s pledge. I have even done this when leading the pledge in front of a room full of people. I respectfully pause while others include it. However, it seems dishonest for me to recite those words and I feel that it would deminish the value of my pledge to include them.

I have been asked to lead the prayer at a couple of Rotary events but have declined but have instead reqeusted to say something in support of those who I think can use our support. This has included our Military while at war, victims of natural disasters, or even local groups in need.

Based on a friend’s excitement about her minister, I have been listening to a series of chuch sermons that I have downloaded from the internet. The sermon’s are 1 hour long and except for a few minutes when the conversation is deeply faithful, I completely enjoy the sermon and find great value in the teachings.

I suppose I would get the same strange looks if I said that I was anything other than Christian or Jewish. I should be thankful that I don’t have to put up with the stares that many of our Muslim friends must have to endure in this age.

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I am probably overly sensitive

I commute to work with a very devout evangelical Christian who has made it a minor goal of his to get me to understand that he is right. It is just exhausting sometimes.

we've all been there - MindLikeSieve
I Feel Your Pain - Andrew Miesem

Been there

I’ve learned not to take offence. Some people just refuse to believe that I really don’t believe in God, they convince themselves that I’m just being difficult or something but underneath I MUST believe because … well because otherwise I’m being nice and giving to charity without expectation of going to heaven. I mean, what kind of a freak would be a good person if there isn’t a reward from God? ;o)


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