I find when I don’t like someone, really don’t like them for whatever the reason may be I feel some what bad, everyone has good in them and what i’ve been trying to do is say okay I don’t like so and so but 1 good thing about them is… and I found it started out with material things, as in I liked that persons car, but if you have to see this person often I try to do something new each time and sooner or later you will find good things on the inside of the person.