what makes you subscribe to people?
So many things have to be considerated. First, after a few chats with the person, I judge if s/he is interesting, if we get along well, etc. Then I usually subscribe and try it for a few days or weeks. If this person writes a lot (and by a lot, I mean texts that take over 10 minutes to read), I might unsubscribe because I never miss any entry by my subscribers, I read everything they write, and I have to deal with the time factor. I can’t allow myself 4 hours a day to only read my subscriptions! But actually I’m subscribed to 30 people and I succeed in reading everything. We must also think about the fact that English is not my first language, so I read a little more slowly than most of you and sometimes need to look up some words in a dictionnary. And there is also that if after a few days or weeks, I realize I’m not really concerned about what this person writes, I might just unsubscribe.
How many subscribers do you have?
30ish. I’ll go check… Okay! 36.
What is your best experience, comment, email, story, on 43 things?
Getting to know some other 43Ters more personnaly. Not necessarely in real life, but outside the website, like on MSN Messenger (like you do too, George!) and even texting with the cellphone. I keep in touch this way with some wonderful people that I can now call good friends. Those include Anne, Sinead, Mae, Hauki (still can’t tell her real name eh?), Kasey a little bit too. And I’ve spoken to OasisOfCalm a few times too and she’s nice. And Caiti too, but I haven’t spoken to her for a while. She’s really nice though! There are a few others that I’d like to meet outside the website too, but I think it’s kind of brazen to ask for an email address or a phone number to text.
Why do some of you want to know who your subscribers are? Is there something about not knowing that frightens you or not?
It’s not my case. I’ve got 36 subscribers and I think I know ten of them or something. I never asked my subscribers to identify theirselves or anything. I consider we have the right to be secretly subscribed to someone.