you are just too nice. Or maybe you have low self esteem and it comes across in your persona. I want this to come across the wrong way but in your pictures you look great, attractive and sporty. Your personality on “paper” is wonderful. Maybe you aren’t bringing all of your attributes to the table when you meet people. If you think of yourself as beautiful and fun and outgoing and athletic etc. etc. etc. and come across this way on the outside you will attract the same. Kick me if I spoke out of turn :)

give one of those other two men a call then? go to a baseball game? or something?

are one of my favorite people here on 43things. You always inspire and give wonderful comments. Perhaps these men are seeing that nurturing side of you.

Perhaps you should should come up with a canned answer to their query. “There is someone that I am interested in, but thank you” or something like that.

I hope you find someone. It is a wonderful feeling to be with a “better half” and knowing it. It will happen, I am sure. Follow your instincts.

theres nothing wrong with being nice u just have to be honest or try not to be suspious of other peoples motives easy said than done but above all HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY!!!!!!!

when I was single, I always seemed to attract married men. Single men had no interest in me but, put a ring on that finger, and man, it was like a magnet that drew them to me. And I wanted nothing to do with them!