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have a social life
The boredom is killing me! 17 months ago

I had a social life at one time. Then I got married and started spending all of my time at home with my wife. (She didn’t ever want to go out so I lost touch with everybody.) Then I got divorced and moved to a new city. Now I know very few people and the people I know don’t seem to want to do anything with me. I really need to make some friends here. Before I was married, I had a group of people that I saw or at least talked to every day. Now, people who call themselves my close friends don’t return my calls for weeks. Staying home alone gets very boring very fast. Sometimes it can get unbearable. I have friends and they always tell me “You do have friends. You have us.” and so-on but we never actually do anything together. They always have other plans. I’m horrible at meeting people. I need to relearn that whole small-talk thing. Sometimes I feel kind of desperate.



Comments:

lazylibra is sooo over it

so called friends

we all have people that say they are our friend yet never do anything and are ashamed of being seen with us. the truth is you dont want to hang out with these so called friends anyways…if your not having fun with them now it will only make for a depressing night.

my answer to you my friend is to go out alone and fine things to do. Best places are the social areas. Its never to old to go to a club or bar. dive rignt in and talk to anyone. who cares if you are not good at it. practice makes perfect.

if you really need help try this guide that is useful. it is written for picking up girls but can also be used for social networking.

http://puafieldguide.com/

GOODLUCK!

I think you should go out and start some kind of hobby you’ve always been interested in but never actually tried. That way you get to do something fun and you might just meet people with similar interests. I found that I met quite a few new people at the classes I do at the gym and getting out and doing something makes you feel good too. All the best :)


 

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