He’s so resistant to even travel overseas. And forget about moving. He hates moving, especially somewhere unfamiliar. He doesn’t want to work abroad he wants to like buy a house and have a 401(k) and stuff. Build wealth and put off travel for retirement or something. 2 weeks a year once I’m in my 40s. Not really my idea of seeing the world. I feel like I have to choose between someone I love and my own dreams and desires. I’m stuck; I don’t know what to do.
It’s not just him really, I also have pets and a good job and friends and bills and responsibility… I feel like I’m too far down one path to take another. Sometimes it feels like I lost my chance to do this kind of stuff right out of college. But with each passing moment I feel like it only gets more difficult to change course. Maybe I”m just being a scaredy-cat.