I have one of those personalities where I like to please and do for others… one of those classic give up my seat to an elderly person ladies… I struggle with not caring what others think and feel about me.. but that is hard to do… I spent my whole younger years trying to make my parents proud of me… which they would regardless of what I did anyways, but that is besides the point… If I am less comfortable to make someone else comfortable that makes me more comfortable…if that makes any sense… I rarely have much of an ego or feel the need to strut my peacock feathers… but by censoring myself for the benefit of others am I making others more comfortable… am I as a person getting lost in the whole mess of it all?