My therapist recently commented that the things I dislike in others may be those things I dislike about myself. A rather over simplified theory I think but with some elements of truth.

I’ve just had a lovely week on holiday with 12 of us plus the dog…however….some of the time I was a grumpy, moody annoying cow. In the theme of ‘being true to myself’ I did a little digging and reflection over what I was actually getting annoyed about and I think I discovered some things about myself.

• I do not like to be taken for a fool although I do care about not hurting people’s feelings in pointing that out.

• I hate being ‘fussed over’ because I pride myself on being independant and self sufficient.

• I want to fit in and please others although I feel jealous of those brave/selfish enough to put their own needs first. As always finding a balance would be good.

• I don’t like to be seen as the ‘baddy’ but I can’t drop something until it is resolved.

• I think awareness of boundaries is vital.

• I can’t stand wingeing in myself or others.

• I care too much about what I look like and I want to change that.

• I like a good argument but in some cases I need to develop a thicker skin.

• I love my family dearly although at times we all drive each other crazy!!

Here’s a pic of us all minus my Dad who took the photo.