Well I’m a newlywed…only been married for 3 mths, goin on 4. I would say that in our marriage we are happy overall…but we just have a few differences that we need to work on to become happier. I do nag and complain sometimes…and I know it bothers him, and I don’t want to lose him because of it. He is the greatest guy I have ever known and I don’t want to mess it up. But I also want him to listen to what I say sometimes, because it takes me telling him multiple times to do something for him to do it, and it aggravates me. I feel like I’m his mother naggin him sometimes. I can say that recently he has improved, and I appreciate that he’s trying! I don’t want him to change, I just want him to cooperate more. I’m trying to do my part, and I think that he is also trying, so I’m grateful for that. But as for everything else I think I’m a pretty good wife. I cook great puerto rican meals for him, wash his sweaty uniforms for him (He’s in the army and works outside in the texas heat lol), make sure the house is as clean as possible when he gets home, I keep up with my appearance, we go out once a week to get out of the house and have a good time, I don’t mind him going out with his friends every once and a while, our sex life is great (I know we are newlyweds, but it has always been good lol…and sorry for TMI!), and I trust him. I’m sure that we both just need to understand each other more and get over our differences, and once we are both more able to do that I think that we would be as happy as we can be! =]