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Find an empowering alternative to the expression "Good luck" (read all 2 entries…)
I don't really believe in luck any more... 16 months ago

..so the kneejerk phrase “Good luck” feels phony and disempowering to me. It suggests that we’re at the mercy of unseen forces of destiny, with less power over our own lives than I would like people to feel they have… because they have.

I would love to find an alternative phrase to say instead, but preferably one that’s not wanky.

Headapollo suggests “Forge your destiny in the crucible of choice”. Wanky.



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evenstar42 is starting over yet again

"Good luck" feels phony to me too.

I still use it sometimes, usually when the outcome of the situation isn’t in the person’s control, but if it is, I’ll say “Go for it!” instead.

Absnasm is so freaking happy!

I suppose sometimes it's relevant.

I should learn to discern in the instant between those situations when it suits and those when something more responsible would be better. I like “Go for it” but I’m sure it trips off your Irish tongue a lot better than it would off mine (I’ll have to ask Simon, heheh). Ideally I’d like something which could directly replace it in phrases: “? ?? at your job interview.” The French have “Bon succès” which I’ve always liked, but it doesn’t translate very well.

Tink is pleased with her progress.

How about this?

“Hope your job interview goes well.”

Absnasm is so freaking happy!

That works... kind of...

..but it’s not very motivating. I’d say something like “Kick ass at your job interview” but I’m just too darned British.

Tink is pleased with her progress.

"Kick butt"?

“Break a leg”? (An interview is, after all, a kind of performance, and that’s the traditional substitute for “Good luck” in theatre circles.

“Go get ‘em, Tiger”?

headapollo mostly comes out at night, mostly

Charming

Good luck in your search.

Absnasm is so freaking happy!

I wasn't actually going to search for a phrase.

I was just gonna leave it up to fate.

evenstar42 is starting over yet again

But... but...

if things can be left up to fate, what’s wrong with “good luck”?!

Absnasm is so freaking happy!

Um...

..nothing! Hey, my goal is complete!

calypte is back, and has fixed the busted pc!

is wanky

better or worse than phony?

Absnasm is so freaking happy!

Better, I think.

Wanky is easier to pull off.

::durrum tish!::

Jessy is happy to have a bit of time off

How about

“I wish you success in your job interview.”

Personally, I don’t think “good luck” implies that the person can’t make it on his own. I think it’s just a wish for that extra little push of fate: the interviewer is in a good mood; the job seeker did a final mirror check and noticed the poppyseed between his teeth.

But if you don’t like it, naturally, you should not say it.

In fact, you could even call attention to it.

“I would wish you good luck if I didn’t know that you already have everything you need to ace that job interview tomorrow.”

Absnasm is so freaking happy!

“Even though I believe wholly that your fate is in your own hands and that there is no such thing as luck, I hope that the external influences over which you have no power collude with your own excellent talents and efforts and combine to facilitate a successful outcome for you.”

Hm.

Jessy is happy to have a bit of time off

There ya

go. ;)

Adar is back.

I've always appreciated it...

when someone has wished me luck, even in the cases when luck was not much of a factor.

“I hope it goes well for you.”

“May you get what you want out of this…”

or just “I’ll be thinking of you.”

With people who are comfortable with God talk, there’s also:

“Godspeed” and “God bless” but I’m very careful not to use those if they are just going to muddy the water.

Absnasm is so freaking happy!

Good ideas, Adar.

Of course, it is nice to have someone wish you luck, but sometimes I feel people use “luck” in a kneejerk way when they really mean something else. I like “I hope it goes well for you”, or “I hope you do well”.

I think I’m going to wind up with a bunch of these.

calypte is back, and has fixed the busted pc!

point of view

These people seem to think luck is something you chose/create for yourself anyway, so maybe it’s not such a bad wish? “Good luck – in which luck is a positive frame of mind you have created for yourself through preparation, postitive mental attitude, and being open to opportunities”. Of course, you might want to shorten that ;)

You can wish me luck, or any/all of the above alternatives on Wednesday, btw :)

Absnasm is so freaking happy!

Ah, isn't the book by the people who wrote the book you've just started?

Serendipitous! Or is that luck?

Gosh, yes, Wednesday! Wheeee! That’s given me a deadline ;-)

calypte is back, and has fixed the busted pc!

yup

The luck quiz was on the same page as the happiness one I was doing – coincidence, merely ;)

Hmm, “I wish you serendipity” isn’t bad, y’know…

Absnasm is so freaking happy!

It’s quite sweet, isn’t it? If a bit laboured. Mind, anything is going to sound laboured in contract with the automatic “Good luck”.

calypte is back, and has fixed the busted pc!

on the other hand

I’m willing to take ‘good luck’ as “hope you don’t have the misfortune to spill coffee down your white blouse, pre-interview”, type of luck, too!

Long John Silvie is home and hopping mad!!

I can't remeber who said it - maybe a golfer?

“It’s strange, the more I practise, the luckier I get”

Very often ‘luck’ (aka success) is down to good planning rather than any intervention of fate. Living where we do in beautiful Pemberley, lots of people comment on how lucky we are to be here, but really is it luck? Part of being able to afford to buy this place is that both DH and I are now ‘orphans’ and have inherited from our parents, and invested this in our property. I would much rather have Mum and Dad still around and live somewhere smaller – this is in fact no contest. Maybe we are unlucky to lose our folks relatively young.

Part of it is because we planned exactly what we wanted in a home, and spent several months actually homeless in the transition in order to get exactly the right place.

But part of it is fate in that we were born in this part of the world. Birth being something over which we had no control.

I wish you every success in finding your alternative :)

but I do still believe in the power of ‘Paws Crossed’ ;)

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Mikhail Nikolayevich If Heaven made someone, earth can find some use for them

MAZEL

TOV: Good luck, usually said as a statement of support or congratulations. (I have a goal use more Yiddish words.)

redbandita Supercow al rescate!!!!!!

The German and Dutch equivalents...

...are “Viel Erfolg!” and “success!”, which both refer to a positive outcome rather than the means of getting there (i.e., the universe or a deity intervening).
I always liked both expressions because they are just to the point and don’t apply pressure on a personal level. It’s self-evident that an interviewee will do their best when being interviewed. (Yoda: “Do or do not… there is no try.”)
I shouldn’t need to tell them to do well or trust in themselves, which might make them wonder why I feel the need to tell them, isn’t it clear that they already do?
I see your point in your search. I personally have a bigger problem with a god coming into play than the unpredictability of the universe. But that’s my heathen self speaking…

Enore is

Why would you not believe in luck?

Luck, good or bad, is just a synonym for “happenstance,” isn’t it?


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