find a place to call ur own, away from home.
in my case it will boil down to @ least 2 places one for my own time when ppl r working their butts off unlike soem professional slackerz
..and the second where u can take a person / small group of ppl away from prying eyes. seriously, sumdays i feel the walls have eyes. paranoia maybe but in this day of technological devices its NOT so far-fetched.
