I don’t think it works like that petal.

You can forgive but never forget…its one of life experiences that becomes part of you but doesn’t become you. In time you’ll stop hurting.

Dear Quasimimi,

Having read your heartfelt comments about wanting to forget in order to get past the pain, I can certainly relate to this as being a thinker myself, much like most of my family, I was given this book by my sister which was a tremendous help to me and to many of my friends since. ‘Stop Thinking and Start Living’ by Richard Carlson. It will help you to take control of your thoughts and what you focus on an whilst you may never forget the events of your life, and perhaps you never should, it will help you to not focus on the past all the time allowing you to get on with your life and heal properly. Keep the faith and smile more often. Broken_Guru.