_GreenLantern_ is reviewing my goals

Be more social and confident (read all 6 entries…)
Getting Better 16 months ago

So I’ve been working on this goal every chance I get. I’ve been trying to make some small talk with strangers who just happen to be next to me. I don’t feel so awkward when I start up a conversation. Its not so bad actually once it starts.

Yesterday was another small step. A friend invited me come with her to watch a play of a friend of hers. There was going to be a group of friends from her dance crew there she wanted me to meet. I recognized two people in the audience when we got there, so my nerves got calmed down a bit. Got introduced to most of the friends, and always tried to start or keep up a conversation. Then we all went out to eat. I admit I was nervous the whole time, but no one noticed, and I think I did well.

*Side-note: The play we watched was Postmortem by Ken Ludwig. It was awesome. It was one big mystery and had me guessing for much of the time. If it ever plays in your local theater, check it out.



Comments:

angiexh wants...

Well done

Quilnmous disappeared for awhile and hopes to return a stronger person.

I'm on the shy side myself

Your approach during and after the play sounds great. I tend to be on the silent side myself, so I admire your steps to work on this.

L.A. is a big place to practice this in! Wishing you continued and endless success.

Eden_in_love Knows she should be more active on here...

You are doing freaking awesome! So many people make a goal similar to this one and then put it at the bottom of their list when it is actually a greatly rewarding goal. When I gained my confidence my struggle was to maintain it, where-as most people struggle to keep it. I think you’re doing great and if you keep practicing(if that’s the way to put it), then I’m sure you will become an even more brilliant person than you currently are.

Keep pushing and best wishes! <3


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