in the elevator on the way to the office, my employer remarked that I look really nice today. I gave my usual response, which is a “Ah, thanks..” not really paying attention to the compliment. I treat them as small talk, which I don’t do well with.

I can be more appreciative of these things. It was a nice thing to say. I can just stop for a beat, smile, and acknowledge the compliment, even ENJOY it.