I’ve been working on this goal and I can say it’s working out better than I thought. I had a habit of settling for things=clothes, jewelry, etc/ people= fake friends, disrespectful assholes that I now do not associate myself with/ jobs= crappy low paying shit/ and I will not do that anymore. I am putting myself first and I will not settle anymore. I realize I matter most and should always keep myself first in everything I do. It’s been working out. Life is much better. I settled for a husband when I knew there was other MEN out there who are much more respectful, loving, and kind. Now that he is gone, life is much better and I am much happier without him. I thought to myself ” I will not settle for a man who is not worth the time of day”. I have no children and It’s not to late to find an honorable, respectful, loving, humble, MAN. Notice how I said MAN. I know I look good and I can pull someone much better. As I said before I WILL NOT SETTLE.