If I love me then I should listen to me. I had this problem for very long as I would supress every idea in my mind that was different from my near and dear ones so that I could please them. I believed that if I make everyone happy then there is no way I will be unhappy in my life. I was wrong. If I am happy my vibes will help others be happy. I listen to me and I have an opinion and I am proud of me.