The high-school dropout who’s now attending jr. college, having that paid for by his parents, living at home, no job, no real ambition, takes you for granted, he’s charming and gorgeous… and wins you over, he casts a spell on you that you don’t understand, tells you he loves you (lie), you believe it, once you realize what you’re really into you don’t know how to get out of it, and almost don’t want to, then he leaves you, swears you’ll still be friends and still hang out; more lies.

The irresponsible but sweet guy that lives 2 hours away and makes you make the trip from your house to his every time you see each other. He has weird obsessions… and something about him gives you the idea that he’s only told you half-truths, about everything. You like him but his easy nature actually puts you on guard instead of at ease. You don’t know if you can really trust him, and he’s way to quick to say I love you.

The way-to-old-for-me dead-end-job jerk that only wants in your pants. He tells you he wants to be your fuck-buddy and gets angry when you say you don’t think you would be able to keep it strictly physical; you’d get emotionally attached.That one didn’t last long…

these are just three of the several jerks I’ve had the misfortune of dating. I actually fell in love with one of them too, he broke my heart so bad.

I’m sick of losers.

Where’s my mr. nice guy? my decent guy? my honest guy?

and an even better question, when and how will I get myself to stop getting into these way-less-then-ideal relationships?

I know I have to do that for myself, no one can make me or do it for me.

I need to stop dating losers. That’s all there is to it.