when do you know if you are fabulous?

is it your own personal, probably delusional/narcissistic opinion that is valued or when others make it clear that you are fabulous and wonderful from their perspective? or is it when you decide yes you are fabulous and then others just get swept up in your confidence and agree?

whatever the truth is, I want to feel fabulous all the time and I definitely used to…now I just need to believe it again every day.

hah!