The final hearing was anti-climatic… he didn’t even show for court. All of 15 mins and I’m divorced with full custody of the kids. Whew! So far he’s done nothing he was court ordered to do: visitation, provide me access to storage to get my belongings or pay child support. Still tryin to decide if it’s worth going back to court to seek contempt or not.

He still calls me late a night, drunk and asks for help. Don’t know what kind of help I can give. I just have to ignore him and hang up.

Still struggling some days, mostly with the resentment about being left caring for our kids alone. But, for the most part, I’m thankful I am divorced.