do u have gmail by any chance? did u guys only break up one time? my ex and i have broke up a couple of times. but when we first met all we did was party. we weren’t looking to be serious. in the process we ended up falling in love. its going to be 2 years now we are on and off. we have broken up like 4 or 5 times….but every time we get back we both have changed soo much for the better and our relationship gets stronger than before. last year one time we broke up and i went out of town and he freaked out. he was driving around my house bc i was ignoring him. we ended up getting back together. whenever we get back he tells me that no other girl compares to me…i’m so different…blah blah. last november ( a couple of months ago) we were at a wedding for his family and we were perfectly fine and he even told me i was the love of his life! it was the best moment ever! his problem is just that he’s scared of commitment i think. wehenver we are PERFECT he freaks out and tells me he’s confused. when we are together he treats me great. but i broke up with him bc sometimes he takes me for granted and puts his friends before me. do u have an e-mail i can write to you to instead of here? let me know..thanks…