i cannot trustmy boyfriend. i feel like he is always going to hurt me and i have this uncontrollable urge to stop him from doing anything in his life so that he cant hurt me by cheating or something.
how do i trust him and why am i like this.
i am going to ruin us if i dont fix my issues.
i want to marry this man.
There’s always a chance someone will cheat. He’s given you no reason not to trust him, I think you are more scared of losing him because you feel he’s all you got. Try finding some activities of you own, doing what you enjoy. This leaves all sorts of opportunities to find your own friends and develop your own indiviuality. At least if he does mistreat you somehow you will be more confident that you can be happy without him.
